The times I’ve tried to conform are the times I was met with the most fear, anxiety, and uncertainty. I had a lack mentality and struggled to have hope. The more I step away from what I’m expected to do towards what I genuinely want for myself, the more supported I feel. Things fall into place, and I can see how everything – even the big scary changes – works out for me. There’s still some uncertainty, maybe even a sprinkle of anxiety, but the fear dissipates and hope revives.